My partner and I are both terminally ill and we're trying to coordinate our end-of-life plans but we're dying at different rates and have different needs around medical interventions, and we don't know how to support each other when we're both scared.
More people experience this than they realize.
Simultaneous terminal illness creates a unique burden where traditional caregiving roles dissolve into mutual witness and support.
“Where Are You with Death and dying — the physical process?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.