My partner had a vasectomy reversal because I wanted children, but it's been two years with no pregnancy and now they're saying maybe we should accept being childfree, and I feel like I pushed them into this whole painful process for nothing and we don't know how to talk about what we've both sacrificed.
More people experience this than they realize.
Medical interventions for fertility can become sources of guilt and mismatched expectations that partners struggle to address directly.
“Where Are You with Reproductive health — general?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.