My partner has severe allergies and needs our bedroom windows closed and air purifier running constantly, but I feel claustrophobic and need fresh air to sleep, and we're both exhausted from months of trying to compromise without either of us getting what we actually need.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love requires accommodation, but some needs seem fundamentally incompatible, creating guilt and resentment on both sides.
“Where Are You with Air quality and respiratory environment?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.