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When food allergies clash with traditional family meal expectations

My partner's family invited us for a traditional holiday meal but I have severe food allergies to some of their key ingredients, and they keep suggesting I just 'eat around' things or 'try a little bit.' My partner knows I can't compromise on this but doesn't want to create family conflict, so we're both stressed about an event that should bring us closer to their family.

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A couple is caught between medical necessity and cultural tradition when family members cannot accept that some food boundaries are non-negotiable.

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“Where Are You with Dietary traditions across cultures?”

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