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How shared illness changes roommate relationships

My roommate and I both got COVID at the same time and isolated together, and it created this intense dependency that feels weird now that we're better — we saw each other at our most vulnerable and now normal roommate boundaries feel awkward to reestablish.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimate caregiving between non-intimate people creates temporary bonds that complicate returning to previous boundaries.

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“Where Are You with Acute illness and recovery?”

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