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When family members share medical costs but can't talk about the emotional burden

My sister and I are both working poor and we take turns helping each other with medical bills — she covers my prescriptions some months, I help with her specialist visits — but we never talk about the shame we both feel about needing this from each other.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Mutual aid becomes loaded with unspoken feelings of inadequacy and dependence.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Body in poverty — health as class condition?”

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