My sister and I are caring for our father through his terminal illness at home, and she believes in aggressive pain management while I worry we're over-medicating him, and we're starting to resent each other's approaches instead of working together.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same dying person are becoming adversaries because their different relationships to suffering are creating different definitions of compassionate care.
“Where Are You with Palliative care and comfort medicine?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.