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When couples cope with infertility through opposite strategies

We've been trying to get pregnant for two years and my partner handles it by researching everything obsessively while I just want to live our life, and now every month feels like a failure we experience completely differently.

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Two people are trying to control the uncontrollable through opposing approaches, creating distance in a process that requires deep togetherness.

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