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Why conceiving after 'giving up' creates complicated emotions

I got pregnant right after we decided to stop trying and now I'm terrified that relaxing actually was the answer and I tortured myself for nothing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Success after surrender generates confusion about whether previous efforts were self-defeating.

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