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How to be mentally present during meals with family

I made it through Thanksgiving dinner without incident but I spent the entire meal calculating calories while smiling and pretending to be present.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Social performance of normalcy can coexist with complete internal preoccupation, creating a exhausting split between appearance and experience.

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