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How applying for disability challenges your beliefs about deservingness

I used to judge people who applied for disability benefits and now I'm filling out the same forms. The cognitive dissonance between my old beliefs and my current reality is making me question everything I thought I knew about worthiness.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Needing support that was previously judged as undeserved forces a reckoning with internalized worthiness metrics.

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