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When you become what you resisted

I'm 44 and I just realized I've spent my whole adult life trying to prove I'm not like my father but I've become exactly like him in different ways.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Reactive identity formation often recreates the very patterns it was designed to avoid.

Ideas that help explain it
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