I'm a gay man and I know the community values youth and muscles but I'm 50 and soft and I feel invisible at every bar and app.
More people experience this than they realize.
Community belonging becomes threatened when personal aging conflicts with subcultural beauty values.
“Where Are You with Desirability and beauty standards across cultures?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.