I'm dying and my family keeps planning my memorial service with me and asking what I want but honestly I don't care what happens after I'm dead and that seems to upset them.
More people experience this than they realize.
The living often need ritual and meaning-making more than the dying, creating a disconnect about what matters in final preparations.
“Where Are You with Palliative care and comfort medicine?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.