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How to process complex emotions before life-changing surgery

I'm having gender-affirming surgery next month and I'm excited but also mourning parts of myself I'm about to lose forever.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Transformation toward authenticity can require grieving aspects of the former self, even when the change is deeply desired.

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