My dad is dying and keeps apologizing for things from decades ago but I honestly don't remember half of what he's talking about and I don't know whether to pretend I do.
More people experience this than they realize.
The urgency of approaching death can give old wounds more weight for the dying person than they hold for survivors.
“Where Are You with Palliative care and comfort medicine?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.