Periagoge
Scenario

When people minimize your loss by suggesting replacement

My daughter was stillborn last month and people keep asking when we're going to 'try again' as if she was just practice for the real baby.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The suggestion that love can be transferred to substitutes denies the irreplaceable particularity of each lost relationship.

Your guide for this
Dipa
Dipa works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Death and dying — the physical process?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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