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When your partner's body changes affect your attraction

My wife gained weight after our second baby and I feel guilty that I'm less attracted to her but I can't make myself feel differently.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Honest sexual response conflicts with love and moral expectations about unconditional acceptance.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Desirability and beauty standards across cultures?”

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