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How to maintain boundaries with people you saved in emergencies

The teenager I pulled from the river keeps texting me and I do not know how to tell him I think about that day every time I see water.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Life-saving encounters create complex relationships that can become burdensome when the helper's own trauma needs conflict with the survivor's gratitude and attachment.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emergency and first aid — evidence-based?”

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