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When repeated pregnancy loss makes hope feel like torture

We lost our third pregnancy at twelve weeks and people keep saying 'at least you know you can get pregnant' but I'm starting to wonder if this hope is just prolonging our suffering.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The persistence of hope in the face of repeated loss creates a cycle of renewed trauma.

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