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Scenario

How to support a friend when their choices conflict with your values

My best friend is going through a divorce and keeps asking me what I think she should do, but honestly I think she's making choices that go against everything I believe about commitment and working through hard things. I want to support her but I also can't pretend I agree with her decisions, and I don't know how to navigate that tension.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone is caught between loyalty to a friend and integrity to their own moral convictions, discovering that love and honesty can sometimes pull in opposite directions.

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