My closest friend and I process everything differently — she needs to talk through every feeling immediately and I need time to think before I can be honest about what I actually believe. We love each other but we're starting to hurt each other with our different rhythms.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people with fundamentally different emotional rhythms are mistaking their friend's processing style for a lack of care.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.