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Scenario

How to navigate co-parenting when both parents have new partners

My ex-spouse and I have been trying to co-parent effectively since our divorce, but now that we're both in new relationships, every decision about the kids becomes this complex negotiation between four adults with different values and approaches. We all want what's best for the children, but we've never actually sat down together to figure out what that means or how to navigate the inevitable conflicts when our perspectives clash.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Multiple adults are learning that effective co-parenting across households requires explicit conversations about values and decision-making that they've been avoiding out of politeness or fear.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Blended Families & Stepparenting?”

Peri

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