My husband and I are both dealing with aging parents and we keep having the same fight about obligation versus self-preservation, but we're really fighting about what it means to be a good person and neither of us wants to say that out loud.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that their deepest moral intuitions are incompatible, but the conversation is disguised as a practical disagreement about caregiving.
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