My husband and I have been having the same fight about money for eight years — not about having enough, but about what money actually means and whether we're allowed to want different things from it. We keep thinking we're arguing about the budget but we're really arguing about values we've never named.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are colliding over unexamined beliefs about meaning and worth, using money as a proxy battlefield.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.