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Scenario

When couples realize they have fundamentally different values about cars and driving

My husband and I have been saving for years to buy our dream car — something we both actually love driving — but now that we can afford it, we're discovering we've never really talked about what we each value in a vehicle and our visions are completely incompatible. We keep having these surface-level conversations about features and budget, but underneath I think we're both afraid that choosing means one of us has to give up something fundamental about how we want to move through the world.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their transportation choices reflect deeper, unexamined differences in how they want to live.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Automotive & Transportation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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