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How to reconnect with a friend when you've both stopped having real conversations

My oldest friend and I used to have these incredible late-night conversations about everything — what makes a life worth living, whether there's anything after death, how to know if you're being authentic. Now when we hang out we talk about work and restaurants and I can feel both of us avoiding the deeper stuff but neither of us wants to be the one to say we miss it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who once shared intellectual intimacy have retreated to safer ground and lost something essential in their connection.

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