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When couples disagree about accepting government assistance and what it means

My partner and I both qualified for different assistance programs after I lost my job, but we've discovered we have completely different beliefs about what accepting help means and whether we should be grateful or angry about needing it. We keep having the same fight where they say I'm too proud and I think they're too willing to accept a broken system.

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Two people facing economic hardship are discovering their fundamental beliefs about dignity, independence, and systemic justice through the crucible of needing help.

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