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Scenario

When couples have fundamentally different approaches to online privacy and sharing

My partner and I discovered we have completely opposite approaches to privacy — they share everything online and I barely use social media — and we're realizing we've never actually talked through what we each believe about digital boundaries, especially as we think about our future together. We keep having these surface-level arguments about posting photos of each other but we're really arguing about something much deeper about visibility and control.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their unexamined assumptions about digital privacy reflect deeper philosophical differences about identity, boundaries, and what intimacy means in a connected world.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Digital Life & Online Privacy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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