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Scenario

When couples fall into cooking roles that breed resentment

My partner and I have been cooking together for years and we've fallen into this pattern where I do all the planning and shopping while they execute, and we both secretly resent it but keep pretending it's fine. We used to love creating meals together and now it feels like we're performing roles we never actually chose.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You've created an unspoken division of culinary labor that serves neither of your actual desires for collaboration and creativity.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Food & Cooking?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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