My partner and I have very different ideas about what commitment means and we keep having the same circular argument where they think I'm too intense about defining things and I think they're avoiding the real conversation about what we're actually building together. We both want this to work but we're talking past each other about what 'this' even is.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're discovering that your fundamental assumptions about love and partnership don't align, and the conversation itself has become part of the problem.
“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.