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Scenario

When couples can't agree on what commitment means

My partner and I have very different ideas about what commitment means and we keep having the same circular argument where they think I'm too intense about defining things and I think they're avoiding the real conversation about what we're actually building together. We both want this to work but we're talking past each other about what 'this' even is.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that your fundamental assumptions about love and partnership don't align, and the conversation itself has become part of the problem.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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