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When couple fights reveal deeper unspoken beliefs

My partner and I keep having the same fight about money but it's never actually about money — it's about some deeper thing we believe about security and risk and neither of us knows how to get to what's really underneath.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are caught in repetitive conflict because they're arguing about the surface manifestation instead of examining the foundational beliefs that are actually in tension.

Ideas that help explain it
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