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When couples realize they want different futures

My partner and I used to dream about the future together but lately when we talk about what we want, we're describing completely different lives — and we're both pretending that's not what's happening.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that love doesn't guarantee compatible visions of a life together, and avoiding this reality is becoming its own form of dishonesty.

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