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How to maintain connection with a teenager developing their own worldview

My teenage daughter and I used to be really close, but now that she's forming her own opinions about things, I find myself either arguing with her or staying quiet to keep the peace. Neither feels right — I want her to think for herself but I also want to share what I've learned, and I don't know how to do both.

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You're struggling to balance respect for their emerging autonomy with your desire to offer guidance, unsure how to stay connected across growing differences.

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