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Scenario

When couples fight about everything except what matters

My wife and I realized we've been having the same fight for three years but we've never actually said what we're really fighting about — it's always disguised as arguments about dishes or money or whose turn it is to deal with her mother. We both know we're doing this but we can't seem to stop circling around whatever the real thing is.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The real conflict remains untouchable, so it expresses itself through endless proxy battles that solve nothing.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parenting & Family?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.