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How to address performative intellectualism in discussion groups

Our book club started as a way for us to discuss ideas that matter, but it's become this place where everyone just waits for their turn to share their take without really listening to anyone else. I can feel us all performing thoughtfulness instead of actually thinking together and I don't know how to say that without sounding superior.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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A group meant for genuine inquiry has devolved into individual performances, and calling it out risks destroying the very vulnerability needed to fix it.

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