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Scenario

When friend groups become performative about dating

Three of us have been single for a while and we started this thing where we'd be honest with each other about dating instead of just complaining or celebrating, but it's turned into this weird space where we're all performing different versions of empowerment and I don't think any of us are saying what we actually think about what we want. The conversations feel more lonely than being actually alone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very attempt to create authentic connection around vulnerability has become another stage for acceptable narratives rather than honest exploration.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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