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When children rejecting your cooking feels like personal rejection

Every dinner feels like a negotiation with my teenager who barely eats anything I make, and I'm starting to take their rejection of my food as rejection of my love.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You have conflated nourishment with love in ways that make normal developmental separation feel like abandonment.

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“Where Are You with Food & Cooking?”

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