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Why We Keep Choosing People Who Can't Give Us What We Need

Every guy I date turns out to be emotionally unavailable and my friends say I have a type but I don't understand why I keep choosing people who can't love me back.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're unconsciously recreating familiar relationship dynamics that confirm limiting beliefs about your worthiness of love.

Ideas that help explain it
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