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When your way of loving pushes people away

Every relationship I have ever had ends the same way with them telling me I am too intense and I do not know how to love someone without consuming them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very intensity that feels like love to you can feel like suffocation to others, creating a tragic feedback loop of abandonment.

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