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How to navigate being in love with multiple people

I am in love with two different people and they both know about each other but I cannot choose and I feel like a terrible person for wanting both.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The cultural assumption that love must be singular can create shame around the reality that human hearts are often more expansive than social norms allow.

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“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.