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Why self-worth issues can destroy good relationships

I broke up with someone because they were too good to me and I felt like I did not deserve their love and now I realize I sabotaged the best thing that ever happened to me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When we believe we are unworthy of love, we may unconsciously destroy good relationships to confirm our negative self-concept rather than challenge it.

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