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Scenario

When You Keep Score of How Your Partner Treats Different Kids

I catch myself comparing how much my husband spends on his kids versus mine and I know it's petty but I can't stop keeping score.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Resource allocation in blended families becomes a proxy for measuring love and loyalty when security feels threatened.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Blended Families & Stepparenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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