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How to Stop Managing Other People's Feelings

I feel responsible for everyone else's emotions and I cannot relax unless everyone around me is happy.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hypervigilance to others' emotional states has created an exhausting sense of responsibility for outcomes beyond personal control.

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