Periagoge
Scenario

Why modern dating feels performative and exhausting

I have been on dating apps for three years and every conversation feels like a job interview where we are both performing versions of ourselves that do not really exist.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When connection becomes commodified, the authentic self gets buried under layers of strategic presentation and market optimization.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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