I just got diagnosed with ADHD at 34 and I'm realizing my entire sense of being lazy and undisciplined was wrong, but now I don't know who I am without all that self-hatred.
More people experience this than they realize.
A lifetime of misattributed character flaws suddenly reframes as neurological difference, leaving the person to reconstruct their fundamental self-understanding.
“Where Are You with Neurodiversity & Learning Differences?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.