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Why Some People Are Only Attracted to Dysfunction

I keep dating people who need fixing and then getting frustrated when they don't change but I don't know how to be attracted to someone who has their life together.

Hypatia
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The compulsion to rescue others often masks a deeper avoidance of our own need for growth and genuine intimacy.

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