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How to handle persistent fantasies about other people

I love my partner but I fantasize about being with other people constantly and I do not know if this is normal or if it means I should not be in a relationship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between monogamous commitment and wandering desire raises fundamental questions about human nature and relationship expectations.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Romantic Relationships & Dating?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.