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Why Stepparents Feel Guilty About Unequal Love

I love my stepkids but I will never love them the same way I love my biological daughter and the guilt about this is eating me alive.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're discovering that love isn't democratic, and the cultural demand for equal affection conflicts with emotional reality.

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