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When You Discover Your Sexual Identity After Marriage

I love my wife but I'm attracted to men and I've been hiding this my entire adult life and I don't know how much longer I can pretend.

Hypatia
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between authentic desire and existing commitments creates an impossible choice between truth and loyalty.

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